I give up. My iPhone, My “issues” and what the heck candy. Lent is never something I’ve paid much attention to. Primarily because I always found out about it within it’s closing days. This year however, I heard about it the day before it started and I decided I would partake. What is Lent you ask? Great Question
Lent is a period of fasting, moderation, and self-denial traditionally observed by Catholics and some Protestant denominations. It begins with Ash Wednesday and ends with Easter Sunday. The length of the Lenten fast was established in the 4th century as 46 days (40 days, not counting Sundays). During Lent, participants eat sparingly or give up a particular food or habit. It’s not uncommon for people to give up smoking during Lent, or to swear off watching television or eating candy or telling lies. It’s six weeks of self-discipline.
I’ll be honest, giving up my iPhone is kind of cheating seeing as I just got my new Nexus 4 in the mail. However the other two I’m serious about. On my quest to be a better husband to my beautiful wife Bethany I realize I need to let things go. Turns out I make a habit of making mountains out of molehills [see definition]. I wish I would have seen this sooner as this character flaw of mine has been the source of unnecessary pain and frustration from my beautiful bride. Marriage is about growing, changing sacrificing and selflessly loving your partner. I have some areas I need to grow and now is as good of a time as any. Starting this month and God willing not ending after Lent I will begin learning what it is to have a conversation with Bethany without nitpicking, fixing or poking holes. I could use some prayer. Turns out I talk way to much.
Overall I’ve been much more active in the past 6 – 8 months, it’s been great. I feel better, I’m more focused. However, I still have a sweet tooth. Turns out that sweet tooth also is incredibly sensitive to hot and cold. Thanks a lot root canal!
I’m looking forward to giving up. Who says things have to stay the same? Well… sometimes I do, or at least I think it, but I’m wrong. I’m hoping this season of lent will wind up being a blessing for myself and my relationship with Bethany.
Cheers to giving up.
Bryce
